when i see sufferings in others, i would like to take them as mine, i would like to feel, i would like to wear their shoes, i would like to be helpful.
now that i have finally realized that i can't, that no one can help anyone. and no one can be helped by anyone. i found myself in dark depression. since that "I" is still there--wants to be helpful. how arrogant!
how about kill that "I"? and leave suffering just like that. see, feel, and respect all karmas of yourself and others, ...one taste.