first, we learn how to work with ourselves.
second, we learn how to relate to others.
and finally, we learn how to be exposed, raw, and naked in any situation...
it's getting more dirty, messy, and out of control in some sense, but maybe that's the only way we will become free...free from dualistic clingings of any kind.
let us learn how to dance on the razor blade of samsara.
vichak